Cuddles!

“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them”

I can't believe how much time has passed without my having a chance to write another blog! ...the joys of traveling!!
But here I am, and do I have things to say!! but I'll pace myself, because I know my readers need time to process all my thoughts (and make time to read them)!

In the past week and a bit I have spent time with lots of children! and it has been awesome! I saw my little cousins (11,5,4,3 and 1 years of age), and I stayed with a lovely family with a 3 and 1 year old, and babysat a family with 5 kids and had a fun afternoon with another family with 3 kids. and I did some craft with a few more kids :)

With each interaction I came away with two thoughts. One, children are trusting. and two, I can't help but cuddle them!

I enjoyed a lovely morning telling short stories about police and firemen jellyfish with a little boy sitting attentitively on my lap for a good 45 minutes! I find that as soon as you show interest in their toys you have a chance to earn their trust. My little cousin happily took out toy after toy, parading them all for me and my friend Emma to see. I enjoyed a wonderful afternoon making a transparent paper star with a boy who loves origami and it was a delight to see his joy in his creativeness and the beauty of the star. And I revelled in the chance to teach a tween a new card game which she was very quick to get the hang of and beat me at!

Children trust. It is so beautiful when they offer that trust, and it is so heartbreaking when that trust is broken or misused.
Trust is important for all relationships, but I think the childlike trust is aptly symbolic of the way we can and should approach God; the Loving Father. Who would never give a child a stone who asked for bread!** When a child trusts there is no inhibitions, they turn to you and expect there to be an answer. They also trust you to give honest answers to questions like 'But why?' and provide, and delight in their work and ability.

I have found that if I come to God like a child, eager to parade my treasures before Him, and ask him the tough 'why' questions, and trust and expect Him to provide... He is truly a Loving Father. Happy to listen, willing to answer, eager to provide the best gift we could ever need; life!

And I think God truly would like to cuddle us, of sorts. As in that's how much He loves His children! He likens Himself to a hen who 'gathers her brood under her wings'***. In Jesus I see a man who loved kids so much He welcomes them to himself even if others around him thought it was inapropriate for children to associate with a great teacher, yet he rebuked his disciples and instead let the children be brought to Himself. Sharing how their childlike trust was all that was needed to enter the Kingdom. It's just harder as an adult to have such a trust, because we see the flaws in people and know that sometimes trust is broken and misused. But God is not one of us, He is trustworthy. The only way to learn that is to come, like a eager child, ready to share your toys and questions, hopes and heart...

*Matthew 19:14
**Matthew 7:9-10
***Matthew 23:3